Book review: Life isn’t always good
We like “Life Is Good” cheerfulness. But sometimes America is too Pollyannaish, says author Barbara Ehrenreich.
Here is a review by the Post-Dispatch’s David Sheets of Ehrenreich’s new book.
“Bright-Sided: How the Relentless Promotion of Positive Thinking Has Undermined America”
By Barbara Ehrenreich
Published by Metropolitan Books,
240 pages, $23
By David Sheets/St. Louis Post-Dispatch
Americans think they live in a happy place. Turns out, that’s not the case.
We smile at adversity and disaster, prop up our psyches with amorphous adages and pep talks, and pump millions of dollars into self-help programs that better serve the providers than their audiences.
And what do we have to show for all of this? Not much. Polls suggest Americans are not pleased with their jobs, their environment, their lives. A recent survey of our overall well-being by the Happy Planet Index put the United States at No. 150 - down there with Third World countries mired in poverty and despair.
So why do we act happy when we’re not? We’re encouraged to believe positive thinking is limitless, says author Barbara Ehrenreich, when in fact it isn’t, as she makes clear with the title of her new book “Bright-Sided: How the Relentless Promotion of Positive Thinking Has Undermined America.”
“Happiness is not … guaranteed even to those who are affluent, successful and well-loved,” the former Time magazine and New York Times columnist writes. “But that happiness is not the inevitable outcome of happy circumstances does not mean we can find it by journeying inward to revise our thoughts and feelings.”
Yet we try, very hard, to do so. As Ehrenreich explains, America has co-opted the good feeling born in the mid-19th century to blunt the dreary effects of Calvinism that dominated the times. Starting with Mary Baker Eddy, founder of the Christian Science movement, and extended by Dale Carnegie, Norman Vincent Peale and later even Oprah Winfrey, the notion that all we needed was to think our way to happiness has pervaded society, so that now positive thinking has started nudging aside rational behavior and logic in our politics and our economy.
The result, Ehrenreich says, is an excess of optimism that colors our judgment and foments self-delusion about reality - a delusion she cites as the reason Washington misjudged Iraq’s response to the U.S. invasion of that country, and the reason behind the unjustified confidence by banks and ensurers so that they defied the wisdom of their numbers and plunged the nation into a mortgage crisis.
It doesn’t stop there. Ehrenreich believes this deluded thinking has extended to our health care system, becoming apparent when she battled cancer and physicians insisted on administering heavy doses of optimism in lieu of actual treatment.
Positive thinking has value and a place in our lives; that much we all know. But Ehrenreich points out that too much of it, like too much of anything else, can have just the opposite affect.


AMEN!
I for one am sick and tired of the tsunami of cheesy and gimmicky “self-help” books that continue to recyle the same stale ideas over and over again with a new catch-phrase or anecdote.
As for Oprah…she sooooo needs to retire…her self-righteous act got old years ago.
Blinding optimism is just that blinding. Excellent insights on the dangers of misguided positive thinking.
Perhaps “Positive Psychology Can Be Dangerous” will be of interest - http://happinessblog.com/2008/04/positive-psychology-is-dangerous/
or “Happiness Studies Are Depressing” - http://happinessblog.com/2007/04/happiness-studies-are-depressing/
The Positive Psychology myth needs to be punctured for the sake of everyone’s happiness, safety and well-being.
Michele Moore - Happy1
HappinessBlog.com
HappinessHabit.com
Whatever! In reality people love to be cynical and this book will sell millions to prove it. I agree that it serves no one to be delusional on the positive OR the negative side of an issue. But how about accepting what is, doing what you can about it, feeling the grief of it and then finding a way to be happy anyway because life goes on. And no one gets out of here alive so might as well enjoy the moment!
Hope for the best, prepare for the worst. There is nothing wrong with a little balance in life.
The message in our culture is that you need to be happy and positive in life. If someone isn’t, there’s something wrong with them and it (they) needs to be fixed.
Few of us have room for sadness, fear, guilt and anger. It’s one of my pet peeves that we tend to cover up how we truly feel and gloss it over with inauthentic happiness and positivity.
The paradox is that there is no such thing as an “I” or identity. Rather than working on that “I,” we can work on the “we.”
I read this article with interest. I cannot comment on Carnegie, Peale, or Oprah, however if one has read Mary Baker Eddy’s book Science and Health with Key to the Scriptures they would realize she does not speak about positive thinking. She ascribes all happiness and health as directly attributed to God, and 140 years - and thousands of people healed - supports what she has written. Christ Jesus, and Eddy’s teachings are based on his life - helped people in the same manner by turning thought to God, and that I am aware of no one has attributed what he did to “positive thinking”.