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03.17.2009 10:08 am

Are Pro Choice people more Pro Life?

Special to the St. Louis Post-Dispatch
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There was a time when we called a spade a spade. There were people who had (and still do) strong feelings that abortions are wrong and they were called ‘Anti-Abortion’. And there were people who felt that it is a woman’s choice, at least in the first trimester, and they were called ‘Pro-Choice’. Enter someone from marketing saying that ‘anti’ is not good, we need to become ‘pro’ something. We need to re-label to become ‘Pro-Life’, which has the added benefit of implying those who oppose us are anti life.

 

 

And so Pro Life and Anti Abortion are most often used as synonyms. But I wonder, judging by the actions of people, if they aren’t closer to being antonyms. Consider the following question: Does a child that is born become less precious than the unborn fetus? One would think that to be Pro-Life means that a child that is born is atleast (ATLEAST) as precious as the unborn fetus. Then pray why do those who so vehemently oppose abortions also consistently vote to deny all our children decent education and decent health care? One has to be mentally blind not to see that we have a very big disparity among the education and health care received by children, based on what part of the city they live in. This disparity, we all know, translates into a life long disparity. Being Pro-Life would REQUIRE that we work to get rid of such a despicable disparity and make sure all the children in our nation get a similar start in life. Conversely those who are most likely to be in favor of improving education and health care for the underprivileged  are people who identify with the Pro-Choice position. 

Then there is the issue of civilian casualties in war (many of which are children). To say that the outcry against children dying in war by the anti-abortion groups was underwhelming is an gross overestimate. The outcry was non-existent. Children should not be a casualty in a war and anyone Pro-Life would demand that all be done to minimize children casualties. But, again, those who speak out against such casualties are people who are Pro-Choice.

Clearly Anti-Abortion is a strongly held view and those that have it are welcome to it. But by their actions they show that life after birth is not always so precious to them. So calling the position as being Pro-Life simply on the basis of their anti-abortion position is not inappropriate. By their actions the Pro-Choice movement is far more Pro Life.

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Khalid, you are certainly stirring the pot this morning!

This thought occurred to me this morning: The currently debated bill in Missouri to make coercion of abortions illegal seems to be standing this whole thing on it’s head. By making coercion illegal, then a parent cannot be involved in a minor’s decision to abort, except to encourage her to NOT abort.

The pro-lifers are so fond of slippery slope arguments. Aren’t they creating one here by legally defining any pregnant female as an adult capable of making decisions on her own?

— hs
10:27 am March 17th, 2009

Re: “why do those who so vehemently oppose abortions also consistently vote to deny all our children decent education and decent health care?”

First off, the right to life is more fundamental than these rights.

Secondly, these legislative arguments are over specific proposals that provide only one means to education and health care. I can be pro-life and oppose, for example, a bill that would provide more funding to local public schools because I fear the money will be wasted to a certain degree and because I know that there is no connection between education funding and education quality. I would need to see the specific legislative examples you are thinking of.

And you are wrong about the war. Many pro-lifers oppose war for the reasons you cite. Problem is, one can support a particular war overall (Allies in WWII for example) while regretting some of the individual actions that took place (Hiroshima, for example).

— Ken STL
10:32 am March 17th, 2009

What about people who are pro-life and yet support the Death Penalty?

— larry
10:40 am March 17th, 2009

Khalid,

Interesting in your attempt to turn the pro-life/pro-abortion argument upside down, but your logic limps, tremendously.

As you have superficially generalized (and incorrectly, I must add) the views and expressions of pro-life Americans, you failed to express the views of pro-abortion (or pro-choice) Americans by simply concluding with a blanket statement that they are more “pro-life”.

Your lack of actual thinking, appearing somewhat sophomoric at best, is awkward and I am embarrassed for you. I realize this is an attempt to anger many in order to create large numbers of responses on this website and thus, appear successful in encouraging others to “think”. You’ve simply made me roll my eyes at your immature attempt to misrepresent a group of Americans.

Maybe try do a little more reading on social justice (the overall concept that umbrellas abortion, war, poverty, violence, etc.) to determine the depth of the pro-life/pro-choice argument and then actually research what prominent pro-life and pro-choice leaders are promulgating before letting loose on the keyboard? At least you’ll sound as though you understand the topic at hand and not appear so trite and unoriginal in your thinking.

— Sarahmom
10:55 am March 17th, 2009

I think you can be Anti-Abortion and Pro Choice. I am. I would be devistated if my child became pregnant early on it’s on accord. Then if she wanted to abort I would definitely try and talk her out of it. However, I truly feel it’s a womans right to choose what she does with her own body, and ultimately it would be my daughters choice. I personally feel if you take the responsibility to have sex you accept all consequences of those actions. I just feel the government or ANYBODY does not have the right to judge or tell anyone else how to live.

— FejjO
11:13 am March 17th, 2009

Thank you for writing this. I’ve been saying the same for years. I’ll listen to “pro-life” rhetoric when “life” isn’t exclusively limited to the unborn or conveniently vegetative.

— EMarie
11:15 am March 17th, 2009

I want to start by saying I am a Pro-Choice woman. But I have to say that I am offput by your arguments here. You are making some incredibly broad generalizations about people who vote Pro-Life. Just because a Pro-Life organization doesn’t stand up for education for children or children dying in war torn countries, doesn’t mean Pro-Life people don’t care about those issues. A Pro-Life organization’s goal is to lobby for one thing–making abortion illegal. Most organizations rally around one cause. You wouldn’t expect an educational lobby organization to come out in favor of Pro-Life or Pro-Choice?

I grew up in a Pro-Life household. My parents have always voted Pro-Life because of their religious beliefs. And although I don’t agree with them, I respect my parents choice to vote that way. Just imagine for a moment that for whatever reason, religious or otherwise, you believe that abortion is murder. You would see abortion as the legal killing of a completely innocent life. To people like my parents, this is a horrific injustice. It’s not that they don’t care about education and healthcare for children, they just believe legal abortion is the greater injustice.

This is America. People have the right to vote for the candidate that they believe stands for what is most important to them. However, it is important to remember that those people may not agree with everything else that candidate stands for.

— Anne
11:25 am March 17th, 2009

Ken Stl,

If Anti Abortion people do not like the bills on health and education that is fine. Come up with your own bills. The point is, there is a real problem with disparity of child health care and education. If they were really Pro Life they would be concerned and would find their ways of tackling these issues. I do not see any such effort. I mean these issues are not new they have been around a long time.

Sarahmom,
If you have can contradict any specific points I have made, I would welcome that opportunity. Those politicians who are agressively supported by Anti Abortion groups do very little for child health care and education and in our state, where they hold a majority, the situation has become a disgrace. As a human being we should not accept this disparity within our great nation.

— Khalid Shah
11:27 am March 17th, 2009

Part of the problem is that people always assume that anyone who is pro-choice is also pro-abortion. It is hard for many to realize that even though someone may want to be the one making decisions about our bodies, that we may NOT like all the options.

I come from a unique perspective in that I am very against abortion. I don’t like it, I don’t like what it does. But I also suffer from a condition that makes pregnancy extremely dangerous for me. I understand why some women with similiar conditions as mine cannot go through with a pregnancy at all. Its the choice between losing a child, losing one’s life, or fear.

No not all abortions are brought around by something like this. But I certainly don’t want someone who has NEVER had to face what I have sit there and tell me that I have NO CHOICE about what is going to happen until I reach the point that I am dying. It should be MY choice to risk death, not some politicians.

— mepps1
11:38 am March 17th, 2009

Excellent discussion starter. You must be a hit at parties:)

Seriously, you will likely get a TON of negative feedback from the comment section on this one. Reason is, no one likes to be called out for the inconsistencies of their views. The points you bring up is one of the problems I have with the Catholic Church (I would consider myself a recovering Catholic). The strident anti-choice position of the Church naturally leads itself to push it’s members toward voting Republican. However, most, if not all, of the positions of the Republican party are antithetical to the social justice teachings of the Church. I would respect the Church much more if bishops would tell the followers, “As a Catholic of good consceince, you can not vote for any candidate.” But, that wouldn’t be popular and wouldn’t keep the coffers filled.

I am in agreement with the anti-abortion but pro-choice crowd that has spoken up so far. I have made this point several times with your fellow poster, Ms. Tyree, that laws limiting access to abortion is not the best way to lower the number of abortions. Promoting access and education about contraception and universal health care is how you lower the number of abortions. The godless secular Western Europeans (tongue-in-cheek, don’t post a nasty note because of that characterization) have an abortion rate about half of the US rate, for the very reasons I just mentioned.

Thank you, again, for the excellent post.

— spyguy
11:54 am March 17th, 2009

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