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06.24.2008 2:30 pm

Senior Connections program helps nursing-home residents regain community and dignity

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If you or someone you know is looking for a way to make a difference in our community, and you have an hour a week to change a person’s life for the better (and really, you know you do), check out the Senior Connections program run by the Singer Institute of St. Louis.  Senior Connections provides training, ongoing support, and placement for volunteers who make a weekly visit to a person in a nursing home who otherwise would have no visitors.  Can you imagine being shut in with no contact from the outside world?  Turns out many many people are living such lives.  But you can provide the simple human connection they need to thrive.

Members of all ages at the Ethical Society have been taking part in this program for over a year, and we recently received an amazing letter from one of the homes our volunteers visit.  Here’s an excerpt:

Far too often our seniors are left alone and forgotten, with no one to visit them or even call them; they become depressed and lose their zest for life.  Getting some of our residents to come out of their rooms can be difficult, let alone getting them to bathe, eat or put on clean clothes.  When we ask them why they don’t want to look nice or come out to eat, they just lower their heads and say, “What’s the point?” or “Who cares how I look?”

Now they have someone they feel truly cares about them. . . . One affected resident who was always isolated in her room now comes out to socialize with other residents, which is amazing.

Senior Connections is a not-for-profit, volunteer program that is nonpolitical and nondenominational.  Too often, we all feel that the problems of the world are so big; we feel powerless.  But we have the power to restore self-worth, dignity, and passion for life to another human being, with only a small investment of our time.  We can be a life-giving gift to each other–isn’t that what all religion should really be about?

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Kate - I’d like to thank you for bringing this group to my attention. In high school I worked at a local Lutheran nursing home for a time. The job was mostly tedious, but the one great part was getting time to interact with the residents. Some who were very outgoing and interesting people and some who were lonely at first. I didn’t get a lot of job experience but I learned so much from my time there. Going into college and trying to start off on my career has taken my eye off that sort of situation. I’ve been thinking that its time to get involved again and I think your post may be a sign. Again, I know we have our disagreements but I really wanted to thank you.

— RCJ
10:33 am June 25th, 2008

This is great. I believe that societally we have lost the respect for our elders and do not honor them or the wisdom they have to offer us.

There is a reason that Confucius thought the obligation to one’s parents to be one of the chief ways to maintain social harmony. There is a reason that many Asians venerate their ancestors. There is a reason that ”honor your father and mother” is a commandment from God. Love is hard work, but so rewarding.

— Kit
9:37 pm June 26th, 2008