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02.27.2008 11:47 am

Does this 4-year-old need to know so much about sex and AIDS?

ST. LOUIS POST-DISPATCH

A recent New York Time’s story unsettled my idea of the right time to talk to children about sex. Reporter Donald G. McNeil Jr. writes:

A new documentary, “Please Talk to Kids About AIDS,” raises this question in a cute but discomfiting way. So far it has been seen only at film festivals and at schools of public health, including those at Harvard and Johns Hopkins. But the film will soon be available at www.eztakes.com/Talk-to-Kids. I saw it last month at a Gay Men’s Health Crisis screening for AIDS counselors.

In it, two incredibly sweet and precocious sisters — Vineeta and Sevilla Hennessey, ages 6 and 4 — accompany their parents, the filmmakers, to the 2006 International AIDS Conference in Toronto. They interview top AIDS experts, gay activists, condom distributors, a sex toy saleswoman, a cross-dresser playing Queen Elizabeth II and an Indian transgender hijra in a sari.

Read more here.  Am I too old fashioned or is this just too much information for a four-year-old?

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I’m with you. I had a hard enough time discussing such topics with my 10 1/2 year old. Call me old fashioned, naive, whatever, but I really don’t want my child growing up that fast.

— Susan
3:39 pm February 27th, 2008

While I definitely agree that 4- and 6-yr olds are too young to be exposed to such harsh content as sex toys and cross-dressers, I definitely applaud the effort to educate kids about AIDS and safe sex. Perhaps they should focus more on pre-teens and teenagers…those who are more likely to be experimenting.

AIDS awareness and safe sex, in my opinion, definitely need to be taught to junior high and high school students, but I think it’s too much for little kids. My uncle was diagnosed as HIV+ when I was 15, and he was very open and honest about how he contracted it. He was diagnosed with full blown AIDS when I was 22, and seeing how this disease has ravaged his body definitely made me think twice when I was younger about my own sexual activities. I am now 31, my uncle is still with us thanks to the EXCELLENT people at Washington University, and I like to think that learning about HIV and AIDS as a teenager definitely made me more sexually responsible.

— LolaB
8:59 am February 28th, 2008