The family drama at these Olympics has been just as riveting as the trying to guess the Chinese gymnasts true age.  I’m thrilled that Nastia Liukin won the gold in the All-Around, and Shawn Johnson came in a close second. Both are champions.

Nastia’s father’s backstory — how he lost the Olympic gymnastics gold by a sliver to his Russian teammate 20 years ago — has been a part of every media report on her victory. While I can appreciate a parent’s pride in watching their child fulfill a goal that elluding him, I find these quotes in USA Today’s story  slightly disturbing.

To this day, Valeri Liukin talks about the minor mistake he made, swinging his arms on a dismount to regain his balance, that cost him gold.

“She fixed my mistake,” he said.

Said Liukin: “It makes it even more amazing knowing that … 20 years ago, my dad competed in the ‘88 Olympics. He was so close to winning that all-around gold medal. … I hope I made up for that. And I hope he feels just as proud as I am of it.”

In several news accounts, Nastia’ father has said how his daughter completed his dream, how she fixed the mistake he never got over. And Nastia has seen her achievement as way to redeem her father’s glory. Shouldn’t this be just about Nastia’s moment? If she had won silver (No. 2 in the WORLD, mind you), would she have somehow disappointed herself and her father? When ever parents start living vicarously through their children’s achievements, it can’t be healthy for the kids.

I wish Nastia’s dad would let her enjoy her moment for what it means to her — not because it completes his 20-year-old Olympic hang up.