Sen. Joan Bray angers male senators with comments on abortion bill
JEFFERSON CITY — The fallout from the Senate compromise on the abortion bill grew exponentially this morning.
Sen. Jack Goodman, R-Mt. Vernon, chastised Sen. Joan Bray, D-University City, on the floor of the Senate this morning for her comments last night criticizing the “men” who control the abortion debate for disrespecting women. (More on that in a bit).
And the compromise that senators worked so hard at might have gone up in smoke. Anti-abortion lobbyists told key House members this morning that they oppose the compromise because they believe it undoes hard-fought for regulations in the informed consent law passed in 2003.
According to anti-abortion activist Sam Lee, the bill that came out of the Senate opens up the possibility that the existing informed consent laws would be put on hold during a possible legal challenge of the new law. That’s because of a provision that gives the Columbia Planned Parenthood clinic a 3-year pass on following the new law. Theoretically, Lee says, Planned Parenthood could sue over most of the law, but not that section. During the several years a court case might take, the 2003 provisions might not be enforceable, he said.
Lee sent a letter to House speaker pro tem Bryan Pratt this morning urging him to oppose the new abortion bill. The House could send it’s older version to the Senate, or it could seek a conference where compromise could be reached.
As for Goodman and Bray, their testy exchange this morning led Majority Floor Leader Kevin Engler to walk out at one point.
Last night, Bray gave an impassioned speech decrying what she called the sexism behind abortion bills year after year. Her strongest line implied that lawmakers were “pro-life” with their wives and “pro-choice” with their girlfriends. No senators responded to the line at the time.
But this morning Goodman called Bray’s remarks “highly offensive” and “slanderous.”
Goodman said Bray had insulted “decent, committed families” and Senate spouses who shoulder the job of being a single parent during the week when the Legislature is in session.
Bray responded that she was talking about the ethical culture of the Capitol.
“I did not say this chamber specifically. I said around here.”
Engler left the chamber during Bray’s remarks. When he returned he said he didn’t want to listen to that “crap.”
Below is the full speech Bray gave last night. Thanks to Bob Watson for the transcript:
“After multiple years on this issue, I’m sick of it. I’m totally sick of it.
I’m sick of women being treated like they are so stupid that they can’t make their own decisions regarding their reproductive rights and their bodies.
I’m sick of women having no options, and being coerced to give birth.
I’m sick of a bunch of men around here, year after year after year, piling up restriction after restriction after restriction on women who found themselves in a very unhappy, unpleasant circumstance of an unwanted pregnancy.
Missouri has the most restrictive abortion laws in the country and, as a result, Missouri’s women are put in danger when they finally do ever get to have an abortion — they’re later and they’re tougher abortions to have because there are so many barriers to Missouri women getting to have a safe and legal abortion.
I am sick of the disrespect for women who come to the Capitol defending a woman’s legal right to choose an abortion.
I am sick that they’re being treated dismissively and rudely.
I’m sick of the ethic around here that men are pro-life for their wives and pro-choice for their girlfriends.
I’m sick of the failure to take steps that would, in fact, reduce the number of unwanted pregnancies, through sex education, contraception, family planning and emergency contraception.
No man in this body will ever have an unwanted pregnancy.
But, mark my word, your daughters, your wives, your sisters, your granddaughters, your nieces will.
And your actions here tonight will disrespect and diminish them.”



Senator Bray stands as a perfect argument against term limits.
She is irreplaceable, and I can only hope that whoever takes her seat in 2010 is half as strong and half as vigilant as she is on this issue that means so much to Missouri women.
I am sick of Joan Bray and the other baby-killing advocates who use euphemisms like “reproductive rights” and “choice” to promote the willful slaughter of innocent human life. Oh, and Joan, there is no such thing as a “safe abortion.” Just ask the child how safe it is. And if a woman doesn’t want an “unwanted pregnancy,” there is definitely a time and a way she can avoid it: Choose not to engage in the activity that causes pregnancy.
One other thing: I am sick of the United States Supreme Court unconsitutionally interfering with our state’s right to choose to have laws against the evil of abortion. (See the Tenth Amendment.)
Joan Bray is well-named, since she brays like the . . . donkey . . . she is.
Pro Choice
Coerced to give birth?! Does this loon believe the crap coming out of her mouth?
Bray is right on!
Thanks for proving her points, commenter Tim.
“Choose not to engage in the activity that causes pregnancy.”
And what about those women who don’t have a choice? Who are either forced to engage in sex, or are put in a situation where they feel that saying “no” would place them in jeopardy?
HOORAY, Joan Bray!! There are many, many Missourians who feel exactly the same way!
How disgusting that the abortion debate is so often led by A) “small government” Republicans who don’t see anything wrong with EXPANDING government’s role in my body; and B) MEN, who will never, ever have to deal with the consequences of their actions by winding up with another human being inside their bodies.
Perhaps what we need are forced castrations?! These unwanted pregnancies are NOT the work of women alone!
What’s the old Truman line? “I don’t give them hell. I just give them the truth and they think it’s hell.”
Right on, Joan. Right on.
Enough already. It’s not your body. A person should have control over their own body. How many unwanted pregnancies turn into unwanted children? Then the next story you see is mother/father charged in the death of their child. If it’s a crime against God then let him sort it out. Unless you’re vain enough to think you now more than Him.
Bravo, Bray. Bravo. I am so thankful there is a voice of reason in a legislative body full of ignorant old men.