Sen. Joan Bray angers male senators with comments on abortion bill
JEFFERSON CITY — The fallout from the Senate compromise on the abortion bill grew exponentially this morning.
Sen. Jack Goodman, R-Mt. Vernon, chastised Sen. Joan Bray, D-University City, on the floor of the Senate this morning for her comments last night criticizing the “men” who control the abortion debate for disrespecting women. (More on that in a bit).
And the compromise that senators worked so hard at might have gone up in smoke. Anti-abortion lobbyists told key House members this morning that they oppose the compromise because they believe it undoes hard-fought for regulations in the informed consent law passed in 2003.
According to anti-abortion activist Sam Lee, the bill that came out of the Senate opens up the possibility that the existing informed consent laws would be put on hold during a possible legal challenge of the new law. That’s because of a provision that gives the Columbia Planned Parenthood clinic a 3-year pass on following the new law. Theoretically, Lee says, Planned Parenthood could sue over most of the law, but not that section. During the several years a court case might take, the 2003 provisions might not be enforceable, he said.
Lee sent a letter to House speaker pro tem Bryan Pratt this morning urging him to oppose the new abortion bill. The House could send it’s older version to the Senate, or it could seek a conference where compromise could be reached.
As for Goodman and Bray, their testy exchange this morning led Majority Floor Leader Kevin Engler to walk out at one point.
Last night, Bray gave an impassioned speech decrying what she called the sexism behind abortion bills year after year. Her strongest line implied that lawmakers were “pro-life” with their wives and “pro-choice” with their girlfriends. No senators responded to the line at the time.
But this morning Goodman called Bray’s remarks “highly offensive” and “slanderous.”
Goodman said Bray had insulted “decent, committed families” and Senate spouses who shoulder the job of being a single parent during the week when the Legislature is in session.
Bray responded that she was talking about the ethical culture of the Capitol.
“I did not say this chamber specifically. I said around here.”
Engler left the chamber during Bray’s remarks. When he returned he said he didn’t want to listen to that “crap.”
Below is the full speech Bray gave last night. Thanks to Bob Watson for the transcript:
“After multiple years on this issue, I’m sick of it. I’m totally sick of it.
I’m sick of women being treated like they are so stupid that they can’t make their own decisions regarding their reproductive rights and their bodies.
I’m sick of women having no options, and being coerced to give birth.
I’m sick of a bunch of men around here, year after year after year, piling up restriction after restriction after restriction on women who found themselves in a very unhappy, unpleasant circumstance of an unwanted pregnancy.
Missouri has the most restrictive abortion laws in the country and, as a result, Missouri’s women are put in danger when they finally do ever get to have an abortion — they’re later and they’re tougher abortions to have because there are so many barriers to Missouri women getting to have a safe and legal abortion.
I am sick of the disrespect for women who come to the Capitol defending a woman’s legal right to choose an abortion.
I am sick that they’re being treated dismissively and rudely.
I’m sick of the ethic around here that men are pro-life for their wives and pro-choice for their girlfriends.
I’m sick of the failure to take steps that would, in fact, reduce the number of unwanted pregnancies, through sex education, contraception, family planning and emergency contraception.
No man in this body will ever have an unwanted pregnancy.
But, mark my word, your daughters, your wives, your sisters, your granddaughters, your nieces will.
And your actions here tonight will disrespect and diminish them.”



“another human being inside their bodies.” Thank you, North County Nan, for your slip of the tongue and accidentally admitting what everybody knows but the pro-abortion advocates are afraid to say: Yes, that *is* a human being, not just a piece of tissue, that the mother is carrying. Therefore abortion is the snuffing out of an innocent human life. It is not *her* body she is killing but someone else’s.
Sorry if this upsets the folks with two agendas/realities/faces/standards… but this is a COURAGEOUS speech that speaks great truths… she will pay a high political price for it, but it really is one for the AGES !
Anyone supportive of this so-called “woman’s right” needs to bring the argument to the unborn. This girl was aborted, but survived. She wanted to live. WHERE ARE HER RIGHTS, JOAN!!!!!!?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-uYDxZlRqx4
Awsome! Wish we had her in the Illinois Senate, imagine what she could say to the Chicago mob in control!
Joan Bray is the disrespectful and diminished one.
How utterly, utterly arrogant for her to say “…your daughters, your wives, your sister, your granddaughters, your nieces will (have an unintended pregnancy).”
Does she really believe that every female behaves as she does? Does every female in the world have to throw their legs open in constant search of genital satisfaction and thus, necessarily, end up with an “unintended pregnancy”?? Are we women all - every one of us - really that stupid? Really??
Joan Bray’s comments betray her own feelings on women’s intelligence and worth in society. Shame on her.
Right on Joan…..you speak the truth and what so many of us feel. Keep up the great work…..You rock!!
What about a man’s reproductive rights? Men have no rights! Men have only 3 methods of birth control: celibacy, a condom (requires the woman’s consent), and permanent irreversable surgery. Women have a plethora of BC options, from pills to implants to IUDs, none of which require her partner’s consent.
If she lies to her partner and says she’s on BC and gets pregnant, it is her choice and her choice alone whether the child is born. If she wants an abortion, she gets it, despite the father’s wishes. If she chooses to carry the child to termn, he pays child support.
How about instead of “a woman’s right to choose”, we start talking about a couple’s right to choose? I know married men who were devastated when their wife lost the child through miscarriage, I assume the pain would be at least as great with abortion. No abortion should be performed without the father’s consent, unless the baby was concieved by rape or incest.
The choice should be with the fetus’ mother, father, doctor, and God. Nobody else should be involved.
Sorry, Charles, but that wasn’t a slip of the tongue. Nobody denies that a fetus may eventually result in a human being. The problem is that the fetus relies on MY BODY to live and grow. It’s not like it’s a free-standing individual from the moment of conception, able to eat and drive and rent an apartment. But thank you for your MALE opinion on a subject for which you will never have intimate knowledge.
Joan is a typical liberal…. if you don’t want a child then take steps to prevent pregnancy… she acts as if women are stupid and irresponsible.
Just because she is blinded by ignorance does not mean all women are stupid…some are republicans.
McGrew, you make a great point.
Clearly, “women’s rights” advocates do not really want “equal” rights. They are too busy enjoying superior rights.