Sen. Joan Bray angers male senators with comments on abortion bill
JEFFERSON CITY — The fallout from the Senate compromise on the abortion bill grew exponentially this morning.
Sen. Jack Goodman, R-Mt. Vernon, chastised Sen. Joan Bray, D-University City, on the floor of the Senate this morning for her comments last night criticizing the “men” who control the abortion debate for disrespecting women. (More on that in a bit).
And the compromise that senators worked so hard at might have gone up in smoke. Anti-abortion lobbyists told key House members this morning that they oppose the compromise because they believe it undoes hard-fought for regulations in the informed consent law passed in 2003.
According to anti-abortion activist Sam Lee, the bill that came out of the Senate opens up the possibility that the existing informed consent laws would be put on hold during a possible legal challenge of the new law. That’s because of a provision that gives the Columbia Planned Parenthood clinic a 3-year pass on following the new law. Theoretically, Lee says, Planned Parenthood could sue over most of the law, but not that section. During the several years a court case might take, the 2003 provisions might not be enforceable, he said.
Lee sent a letter to House speaker pro tem Bryan Pratt this morning urging him to oppose the new abortion bill. The House could send it’s older version to the Senate, or it could seek a conference where compromise could be reached.
As for Goodman and Bray, their testy exchange this morning led Majority Floor Leader Kevin Engler to walk out at one point.
Last night, Bray gave an impassioned speech decrying what she called the sexism behind abortion bills year after year. Her strongest line implied that lawmakers were “pro-life” with their wives and “pro-choice” with their girlfriends. No senators responded to the line at the time.
But this morning Goodman called Bray’s remarks “highly offensive” and “slanderous.”
Goodman said Bray had insulted “decent, committed families” and Senate spouses who shoulder the job of being a single parent during the week when the Legislature is in session.
Bray responded that she was talking about the ethical culture of the Capitol.
“I did not say this chamber specifically. I said around here.”
Engler left the chamber during Bray’s remarks. When he returned he said he didn’t want to listen to that “crap.”
Below is the full speech Bray gave last night. Thanks to Bob Watson for the transcript:
“After multiple years on this issue, I’m sick of it. I’m totally sick of it.
I’m sick of women being treated like they are so stupid that they can’t make their own decisions regarding their reproductive rights and their bodies.
I’m sick of women having no options, and being coerced to give birth.
I’m sick of a bunch of men around here, year after year after year, piling up restriction after restriction after restriction on women who found themselves in a very unhappy, unpleasant circumstance of an unwanted pregnancy.
Missouri has the most restrictive abortion laws in the country and, as a result, Missouri’s women are put in danger when they finally do ever get to have an abortion — they’re later and they’re tougher abortions to have because there are so many barriers to Missouri women getting to have a safe and legal abortion.
I am sick of the disrespect for women who come to the Capitol defending a woman’s legal right to choose an abortion.
I am sick that they’re being treated dismissively and rudely.
I’m sick of the ethic around here that men are pro-life for their wives and pro-choice for their girlfriends.
I’m sick of the failure to take steps that would, in fact, reduce the number of unwanted pregnancies, through sex education, contraception, family planning and emergency contraception.
No man in this body will ever have an unwanted pregnancy.
But, mark my word, your daughters, your wives, your sisters, your granddaughters, your nieces will.
And your actions here tonight will disrespect and diminish them.”



What a joke, she is the reason for Term Limits. The people in her district have real problems and all Joan has ever done is be a crazy Femi-Nazi.
I am so sick of her and their rest of their crap about “thier body, their choice”. #1 they had a choice, they chose to engage in activity that leads to procreation, and now they need to live with the consequence. #2 next time some gal has a baby and tries to get child support from the baby daddy, why doesn’t he just scream “its your body, its your choice, its your problem”, and we’ll see how that works out for them.
Still BRAYING like a jackass.
Joan Bray is my hero.
Baby Killer
“I think of a man. Then, I take away reason and accountability.”
“Last night, Bray gave an impassioned speech decrying what she called the sexism behind abortion bills year after year. Her strongest line implied that lawmakers were “pro-life” with their wives and “pro-choice” with their girlfriends. No senators responded to the line at the time.”
In your book, Tony M. Objectively speaking, that claptrap definitely ain’t on par with the Gettysburg Address.
Anyone pro-abortion, please answer this question logically.
If your mom had aborted you, where would you be?
Responses are very welcome…
…if you can stick to positing a logical, thought-out, or enlightening answer to the question that is based on documented scientific research.
If you can’t cite any of that, your opinion will have to do.
Thank you Bray, for telling it like it is and standing up for the women of this state.
It is always astonishing to me that some people have not yet learned that it is impossible to control other people’s actions and decisions. And Bray is right, in trying to control this aspect of a woman’s life, great disrespect and distrust is shown. They may as well just tell us to stay in the kitchen while they’re at it, of course, when we’re not in church!
yay Senator Bray
So, so true.
Charles Hendrickson: you’d be one of those men she’s talking about, right? How about you get out of women’s lives? We will thank you to keep your nose in your own business.
The amazing thing is how many of the women here are so selfish. They don’t have morals, but simply situations
There are three entities involved here
If they want a baby, it’s a baby. If they don’t, then it’s not - and it changes moment to moment.
If they want support (emotional or monetary) then the fathers are very important. If they can’t get it then fathers don’t matter
Here’s a hint- if you were truly moral, the beliefs wouldn’t change based on how convenient it is for you. Instead, it’s simply selfish