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05.14.2009 12:39 pm

Sen. Joan Bray angers male senators with comments on abortion bill

St. Louis Post-Dispatch
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JEFFERSON CITY — The fallout from the Senate compromise on the abortion bill grew exponentially this morning.

Sen. Jack Goodman, R-Mt. Vernon, chastised Sen. Joan Bray, D-University City, on the floor of the Senate this morning for her comments last night criticizing the “men” who control the abortion debate for disrespecting women. (More on that in a bit).

And the compromise that senators worked so hard at might have gone up in smoke. Anti-abortion lobbyists told key House members this morning that they oppose the compromise because they believe it undoes hard-fought for regulations in the informed consent law passed in 2003.

According to anti-abortion activist Sam Lee, the bill that came out of the Senate opens up the possibility that the existing informed consent laws would be put on hold during a possible legal challenge of the new law. That’s because of a provision that gives the Columbia Planned Parenthood clinic a 3-year pass on following the new law. Theoretically, Lee says, Planned Parenthood could sue over most of the law, but not that section. During the several years a court case might take, the 2003 provisions might not be enforceable, he said.

Lee sent a letter to House speaker pro tem Bryan Pratt this morning urging him to oppose the new abortion bill. The House could send it’s older version to the Senate, or it could seek a conference where compromise could be reached.

As for Goodman and Bray, their testy exchange this morning led Majority Floor Leader Kevin Engler to walk out at one point.

Last night, Bray gave an impassioned speech decrying what she called the sexism behind abortion bills year after year. Her strongest line implied that lawmakers were “pro-life” with their wives and “pro-choice” with their girlfriends. No senators responded to the line at the time.

But this morning Goodman called Bray’s remarks “highly offensive” and “slanderous.”

Goodman said Bray had insulted “decent, committed families” and Senate spouses who shoulder the job of being a single parent during the week when the Legislature is in session.

Bray responded that she was talking about the ethical culture of the Capitol.

“I did not say this chamber specifically. I said around here.”

Engler left the chamber during Bray’s remarks. When he returned he said he didn’t want to listen to that “crap.”

Below is the full speech Bray gave last night. Thanks to Bob Watson for the transcript:

“After multiple years on this issue, I’m sick of it. I’m totally sick of it.

I’m sick of women being treated like they are so stupid that they can’t make their own decisions regarding their reproductive rights and their bodies.

I’m sick of women having no options, and being coerced to give birth.

I’m sick of a bunch of men around here, year after year after year, piling up restriction after restriction after restriction on women who found themselves in a very unhappy, unpleasant circumstance of an unwanted pregnancy.

Missouri has the most restrictive abortion laws in the country and, as a result, Missouri’s women are put in danger when they finally do ever get to have an abortion — they’re later and they’re tougher abortions to have because there are so many barriers to Missouri women getting to have a safe and legal abortion.

I am sick of the disrespect for women who come to the Capitol defending a woman’s legal right to choose an abortion.

I am sick that they’re being treated dismissively and rudely.

I’m sick of the ethic around here that men are pro-life for their wives and pro-choice for their girlfriends.

I’m sick of the failure to take steps that would, in fact, reduce the number of unwanted pregnancies, through sex education, contraception, family planning and emergency contraception.

No man in this body will ever have an unwanted pregnancy.

But, mark my word, your daughters, your wives, your sisters, your granddaughters, your nieces will.

And your actions here tonight will disrespect and diminish them.”

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Um…saying that men also have a choice is not attacking men. Noting that men are passing laws that don’t affect their bodies is not attacking men. These are both facts. Guess the fellow who ATTACKED me personnally either hates women or just can’t stand to deal with the facts.

I do not want to tell anyone else what to do with their bodies, but if we’re going to legislate what I can/can’t do with mine, then I DO want the authority to tell others what to do with theirs. Does anyone remember the Golden Rule? Do Unto Others……. If you’re going to force people to do things the way you want, be prepared for them to do the same to you.

— Linda - St. Louis
2:23 pm May 14th, 2009

I don’t take a stand on abortion because I can’t get pregnant. But that was really a great line. I appreciate someone who has the guts to give a super quote like that. Finally, real politics.

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— harry jackson
2:25 pm May 14th, 2009

The pro-life, home-schooling, McChurch-attending nut-jobs are the reason we ended-up with the worst president & vp in the history of this nation..for two terms! Why don’t we let the people with working female reproductive systems work on this one, and let our government get back to important issues like the economy?!

— bababooey
2:26 pm May 14th, 2009

So proud of her for standing up for women and speaking the truth. She’s 100% right - no man will ever have to face an unwanted pregnancy, so how DARE they try to force women to give birth against their will! There should be available, affordable contraception and access to early abortions for all women.

— Vanessa
2:26 pm May 14th, 2009

McGrew - I am confused by your comments
1 - Condom - why does this require a women’s consent? PUt it on if you want to put it on.
2 - Permanent irreversible surgery? What is this? Vasectomy? That’s not permanent or irreversible. My husband had his reversed and I am now pregnant.

— Sue
2:26 pm May 14th, 2009

If a fetus is a baby then why don’t we give miscarriages at 6 weeks funerals with graves? There are SO many contradictions on this issue. It is not for people to judge. It is the woman’s body and for her to judge.

Sometimes VERY INTELLIGENT women use precautions and birth control and it fails, resulting. Until a person has been in that position, they cannot judge.

A few months ago I heard a program on NPR about a man suing his ex-girlfriend because she didn’t abort the baby and he didn’t feel he should have to pay child support. It’s not a cut and dry issue and those who think it is are close-minded.

I respect Sentaor Bray for standing up for the rights of women.

— JmA52
2:26 pm May 14th, 2009

It’s heart wrenching that we would murder our defenseless babies and refer to it as reproductive rights. God change our hearts.

— Steve
2:26 pm May 14th, 2009

The only people who think abstinence is a reasonable ”choice” are the same ones who use the rhythm method for birth control. And we all know how well that works. Not having sex is NOT A CHOICE. As a woman who has been sexually assaulted I find these comments extremely offensive, naive, chauvinistic and archaic not to mention just plain backward and stupid. This is a prime example of the justification for the separation of church and state. Stay out of my womb!!!! Thank you Senator Bray.

— nolabels
2:28 pm May 14th, 2009

“Men have a choice too. Don’t shoot your sperm into a vagina if you’re not certain how the woman feels about getting pregnant. If you’re not willing to have that talk with her, perhaps you shouldn’t be engaging in sexual relations with her.” –Linda - St. Louis

Linda, I agree with you on *that* 100%. A pregnancy is always a “team effort” between a man and a woman. Both are responsible for the life of the child in the womb.

Here’s a novel idea, guys and gals: Don’t engage in sex unless you are prepared to have–and raise–a baby. That is the time for “choice.”

— Charles Henrickson
2:28 pm May 14th, 2009

Good point, Linda. Why is is so hard for some men to admit that their views on this issue might be entirely different if they had the benefit of personal experience?

— North County Nan
2:28 pm May 14th, 2009

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