It seems that DeAnna will make the bad choice and pick Jason. He’s damaged goods. He’s got a kid. Its pretty obvious he’s looking for a Mommy for his kid. If she picks him, she will complicate her life tremendously, while making his life sweet and easy. They shouldn’t even allow men with kids on the show. Thats just wrong. I hope she picks Jesse.

wow, you’re ridiculous….just because someone has a kid and their first marriage didn’t work out, they don’t deserve a second chance? You’re rude.

I think Deanna just might pick Jesse cause she seems to really get “giddy” and wanna stay as long as possible with him every time they are together and to me that is when you know.. She has kept him this far and he did say he was at the point of marriage for her so i think it will be him. Jason however, I have liked from day one and if she picks him too because of his gentle and fun side that would be great too! Cant wait for monday! It will be a long wait.

Wow, Lisa, you are absolutely RUDE! Jason is married doesnt mean he can’t make DeAnna happy. You are absolutely wrong but then, that’s your opinion. Obviously, you are not that smart. If DeAnna picks Jason, why not, he seems to me a sweet and genuine guy, caring ang has to offer. I think Jessie is a nice guy, but I after last night, when DeAnna asked him what is he gonna do after his snowboarding “career”, seems to me, that was a catch question. DeAnna wants security and nowadays, I think thats understandable. Whoever she pick, I hope she made the right choice. But, I go for Jason since he will be a perfect father and has a good quality.

I like both of them but I think she’ll pick Jesse…

Lisa is absolutely right. I married a Jason before. Baggage, baggage, baggage. None of us know the story of the mother to the “cute kid.” It is not always civil and always a gamble. She let the wrong guy go last night and has shown she is not ready for true love since she couldn’t “feel it” for the obvious choice. Jeremy is perfect for her but she did not want perfect, she wants fun. Fun comes and goes, perfect is forever. Tough luck DeAnna.

wow….the comment from Lisa and Dianna is pretty rough!!! You never know when you or a loved one will “Be damaged goods” as you call it….I am sure that you will change your tune then. Hopefully anyway. In addition, you can’t “assume” that he will be the same as someone else who has been married before and/or has a child. That is plain ignorant. That is like saying that I dated an artchitect and he was an idiot so all of them are….

Diana

Jason is more of a man than any of the other finalists will ever be. He’s real and down to earth. Any woman would be lucky to be in a relationship with him!

Let’s hear it for JESSE!!! They are so cute together and he is really genuine. They can build a life together vs. she’ll fit into Jason’s.

I have a feeling that she’ll pick Jesse, but I sincerely hope she picks Jason. He is so sweet and on the HTD she and Jason made such a beautiful couple with Ty. Jesse and DeAnna are just weird together, for me. They don’t seem like they’re a couple as much as they’re friends. He told his dad on the HTD that he wasn’t ready to get married right away and DeAnna definetly is. If she doesn’t pick Jason, I’ll drive to Seattle and find him myself!

I am so glad she sent Jeremey home. He was a schmuck.

I like both the finalist and will be happy with whomever she picks. Kinda anti-climatic (where if Jeremy was a finalist I would root for the other).

On a side note, “damaged goods” is a bit cruel. As someone out there in the dating scene, there are plenty of childless losers out there that makes me realize eliminating someone because they have a kid is a bit silly (and probably self-destructive).

jesse all the wayy!!! jason is okay too i guess..

I really want Jason to win.They do make such a cute couple with Ty.She even gave Ty a present which is so sweet.The star!:)

I’m 65% sure that she’ll pick Jesse though.I think she’ll pick him because she keeps saying that their relationship has grown since the beginning.But,Jesse did say if his career in snowboarding doesn’t work out he’ll just want to be happy.He doesn’t know what will happen when they get married.

Jason is ready to get married to the girl he loves.Downside to him is that DeAnna thinks that she might not be ready to be a mother.But I think that Ty really likes DeAnna and she would be perfect to be the step mother of him!

I am REALLY excited to see what happens!!!

I really want Jason to win.They do make such a cute couple with Ty.She even gave Ty the star which is sweet.:)
I’m 65% sure that she’ll pick Jesse though.I think she’ll pick him because she keeps saying that their relationship has grown since the beginning.But,Jesse did say if his career in snowboarding doesn’t work out he’ll just want to be happy.He doesn’t know what will happen when they get married.
Jason is ready to get married to the girl he loves.Downside to him is that DeAnna thinks that she might not be ready to be a mother.But I think that Ty really likes DeAnna and she would be perfect to be the step mother of him!
I am REALLY excited to see what happens!!!

For the comments about Jason having baggage I married a man with “baggage” and I love his son as if he were my own and couldn’t ask for a better husband and father for our own two children as well as his son from his previous marriage. We couldn’t be happier. I really hope Jason wins because he’s the sweetest and most stable man for her. After all stability is what Deanna says she wants and she’ll have that with Jason. They’d make a beautiful family!

Did anybody notice in the preview for the finale on the Men Tell All show that she clearly kisses Jason on the mouth and she turned her head slightly when Jesse went in to kiss her? that doesn’t mean that’s exactly how it happened as I know this is a preview and they probably meant to show that so we’d be surprised next week. I hope she picks Jesse as he does have everything she was looking for, but I do also think she is thinking Jesse is that “what I never expected, but found” love. I’m afraid that she’ll get her heart broken down the road if she choses Jesse as he just doesn’t seem to be ready for marriage, even though he told her he was. I think he said what he knew he’d have to if he wanted to continue their relationship to the point of possibly truly falling in love.

Deanna is a great girl, I love the fact that she is just as ‘plain -Jane’ as the rest of us. I think Jessy is sweet but not sure he is mature enough, and yes the fact that Jason has a kid does complicate things. My first impression was also damaged goods, too much complications RUN DEANNA!! but being such a huge fan of the Bachelorette, Jason was one of the few or the only guy I always saw acting like a gentleman and not abnoxious. I think Jessy played his game right, not too much in the beginning, the guys liked him and with his looks none of them felt threatend. ha-ha… I am suprised he is still standing. The only thing is Jessy is like a child, can’t even wash his hair everyday!!!! BUT he looks like a sweet guy, but for realistic long term… JASON!!

If I were 15 years older I would so marry Jason, I love kids and his kid is soooooooo cute! He is soooooooooo nice and sensitive!
I luv him!

I know DeAnna, my dad is her eterny, and she picks Jason ( thank god!) Ty is as cute as ever I baby sat him the other day wile DeAnna went out with Jason. Jason is like a brother to me, I met him about 3years ago.
Hanah

Im hoping for Jason. Jesse is a greasy haired surfer dude completely lacking in intelligence as well as the ability to express himself. All he can say is This is ridiculous or this is crazy. He told friends he was doing the show to further his career and get exposure. What an idiot.

Just think… twenty years from now, and being the proud parents of the finest snowboard collection in the US! What a LOSER!

I’d hate to have to choose. I think both guys are great!!! I can’t figure out which one she will choose. Whichever one is left, I hope they make him the next Bachelor.

I like Jason the best. DeAnna seems to be attracted to men that might be wrong for her (Graham), but does listen to her intuition (she did not give him a rose). I am glad she let Jeremy go if she didn’t feel it. It hurts to hear that someone you love doesn’t love you back, but it’s honest and the right thing to do. Jesse promises the excitement of single life for a little while longer and Jason the stability of married life. Now it’s all about where she is at in life. She wants marriage and children, but how soon and in what way? Only time will tell.

As for the spoiler about Jason…Hanah, you might want to think about what secrets you disclose. It is supposed to be a secret until the final episode and their story to tell. If you aren’t telling the truth then shame on you.

Re: “baggage”, we all have it. The key is to find a partner who will accept your baggage and you will accept your partner’s. For those who think a person with children has baggage and is damaged goods while someone without children doesn’t have baggage or isn’t damaged, well, it’s a good thing you aren’t the bachelorette now, isn’t it?

After watching the “Men Tell All” episode it is clear that DeAnna is still in Love with Graham! I hope she doesn’t make a huge mistake and rush into an engagement. She’ll regret it.

This is an opinion blog…so don’t bash woman with OPINIONS.I do agree that she should run from Jason.He is a loser.Why would a single woman with 25 guys to pick from choose a goof ball with a kid? BUT…what will Jesse do after snow boarding? I kind of think DeAnna is wacko!

From my observations of the show, Jeremy could be called “damage goods.” He seems to have been extremely traumatized by the death of his parents — especially his mother. He is so morose, rarely showing signs of lightheartedness and fun. DeAnna is the visual reincarnation of his dead mother. How creepy is that? Jason is a gentleman with a serious and a fun side. He seems to have a stable career, a wonderful supportive family. Jeremy’s kind of “perfection” would be difficult for any woman to live up to.

umm im sorry but who on earth would that complicate her life. you clearly havent been paying attention to the show at all!!! in almost EVERY episode she talks about how shes so ready to be a mom!, she wants kids.!!
i hope she doesnt pick jessy, jessy seems to be goign along with the show.. like at first he wasnt even sure if you could fall in love this way! so he clearly wasnt thinking about marriage and kids. know he wants kids and be married right away, hes seems a little kiddish to me. he doesnt want to leave the mountains and he wants to go there 3months out of the year, deanna wants a man that will be home for her and theuit family!!,
jason is so cute and when ever their together i cant stop smiling:) they make my day!! JASONS GOING TO WIN TONIGHT!!

In my opinion, DeAnna would be unwise to choose Jason. I don’t think that he is a bad guy, but he seems too needy and he already has a child, which is a lot for someone as young as she to take on. DeAnna does not seem like the most mature woman around– reference the hissy fit she threw on the episode where she wasn’t getting enough attention. Would she and Jason really work out after the newness wore off and Ty took precedence (as he should) over her? Plus, why would a good guy put his child, the most precious thing in the world to him, on national television?! That’s crazy along the lines of Denise Richards, Kimora, and Her Royal Craziness herself, Dinah Lohan. It seems like he’s trying to exploit his child to play up his ‘nice guy/family man’ image.

Lisa you must not have any idea of what’s going on! She shouldn’t pick Jesse just because he doesn’t have a kid.I really hope she picks Jason! Just the way he acts around her tells you he has feelings for her.After this I think both guys will find a happy ending!Still I like Jason!GO JASON!

Are you serious!! I think Jason is and incredible man and father and I think he would make her so happy! Just because he has a kid doesn’t mean that he should spend his life alone. He deserves a second chance at love and his son deserves to have a mom and by the way DeAnna would be fabulous!! If you watched the whole show, it wasn’t his choice to be a single father…his wife left him and their son! Maybe you are just young and don’t have an understanding on life!
Amy

DEanna is clearly an idiot for choosing Jessie over Jason. She has no idea what she has lost…and what she will never have with such an immature, self-absorbed little dork. I don’t feel bad for her anymore because she clearly made a poor choice for her future. Time will show her…when Mr. “Fun” can’t handle real-life responsibilities.

She so picked the right guy. Deanna clearly showed throughout the season she loves to live life to the fullest and take chances. I think the 4-wheeler episode was the turning point. He never tried to impress her other than being himself the ENTIRE season. He was dead on when he said you have to be friends first, that the physical part of a relationship was easy. That was the most mature, true comment of the season. I wish them well. She accepts him for who he is, as he does her. They will be happy, and I hope they are! They are going to have so much fun together!

The show was awesome and I feel for Jeremy. However, I think you’ll find someone worthy than DeAnna. Seeing two men (preview) proposing and one rejected, that was a TOTAL DISASTER. They are all human being and imagine what would happen if a member of the show got into the same position. WOW! that was a HEART BROKEN THAT EVEN DEANNA WOULDN’T EXPERIENCE. AFTER ALL,I think Jason is the right guy for DeAnna. He’s ready to start a family. Jesse is still a “kid”. He’s not ready to become a man, yet.

I have to say that I’m shocked by her Deanna’s choice. I know looks isn’t everything but I don’t even see the beautiful inside of Jesse’s that she sees.I just don’t think he’s all that.

After watching the “aftershow” where she was all kissy-face, huggy-body with Jesse, I think he looks like he’s not very comfortable with the whole situation. My money’s on them not last more than a year or two.

I understand she didn’t have the same feelings for Jason, but if she was truly looking for someone to settle down and start a family with, then she made an extremely poor choice. I don’t think Jesse’s the one. I even felt sorry for Jeremy, whom I didn’t care for previously, by the time the show was over.

I wish she would have picked Jason!! When they were showing After the Final Rose I realized that Jesse is crazy for her! I thought their suprise would be that their having a baby!! I also hope that they will make Jason the next Bachelor. I think that it was cruel of D to let Jason get all the way down to the ground. Just think they’ll grow old & own the biggest snowboard shop in the world!!